The Mystical Fish

It’s amazing what you can pick up in the local wet market. No, I am not talking about the local produce (although it is always a good thing to know where one can still get good kopi for 60 cents). I am talking about the titbits you acquire through conversation. In this instance today, I […]

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Transition Into Meaningful Tent-Making

Transitions: A Common Experience not Commonly Talked About I don’t think we pay enough attention to what goes on when someone is in transition. For example, in the past month since relocating back to Singapore, a common question I am asked is, “So have you settled in yet?” Sometimes, I am tempted to say “Yes” just […]

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The Desert

There is a desert that one traverses alone. This desert is not a physical place, for one can feel utterly desolate in fields of plenty, or be left totally forlorn amidst amicable company. Instead, it is a state of being. St John of the Cross called the experience the Dark Night of the Soul. I […]

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Death at 70

I am falling in love again with Ursala Le Guin. I love how her mind thinks. And I love how she writes. I used to love her science fiction when I was young. After a long separation from reading her works, I am now re-captivated by her thoughts about getting old. Sadly, she passed away […]

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Feedback

Feedback is Listening

Feedback is a Many-Splendoured Thing Feedback is important to any organisation. Unfortunately, not everyone is adept at seeking, giving or receiving it. To some, feedback is most welcomed, especially those with a growth mindset. For others, it can be nerve-wrecking. (By the way, I particularly discourage the sandwich model of giving feedback. You can refer […]

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On Change

Change Happens Because Life Needs to Happen Change happens around and to us all the time. People say change is the only constant. I say change must necessarily occur, for it indicates that life is happening. For example, by this time tomorrow, we will be (hopefully) on a plane together with 19 accompanying luggages for […]

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